Some of them still continue to "hotlist" me even weeks later. Somewhere that you store food that you’re not planning on eating right this second? A pantry to keep track of all the lovely ladies who may have caught their eyes while browsing. This is a huge problem with online dating and I only know because I’ve experienced it myself.
Being put on a hot list is better than not being put on a hot list, but, in and of itself, the gesture means very little. You haven’t been eliminated from contention, but there’s no guarantee you’re going to get an email. You go on Match.com, see that you’ve been browsed 518 times, but you’ve only received three emails and five winks.
Recently a guy favorited me and I sent him a wink back. So far we have exchanged 5 or 6 emails already over almost two weeks but he still doesn’t ask me out or give me his number.
I belong to a dating website that has "winks" and "hotlists" as features.“They think we’re weak or not going to tell and we’re not going to come forward, and we need to.I’m sure there are girls that have been violated by this man.But when she parked the car, he held a gun to her head and demanded she get in the back seat. Investigators later discovered he was wanted for another sexual assault in 2006.“As women, they take us for granted,” the woman said.