Toyboy Warehouse was born and has since prided itself on celebrating relationships and connections of all types without the self-imposed boundaries of age.
Soon after the site launched the word began to spread..wildfire.
So if you like this guy, sure the relationship can fly!
Just be careful about obsessing over whether this relationship can get superserious.
I was married once before, to a man five years my senior.
After 12 increasingly dreary years capped by a wrenching divorce, I couldn't imagine why women in my situation (childless divorcées) complained about the prospect of reentering single life. Wasn't finally having some laughs, romance, and excitement the way to take the "crisis" out of "midlife"?
So let's start with the not-so-good news about why you might be dating this guy. Or because it's intimidating--they move at a faster pace physically than you like? Do you feel that you can't attract someone who's more on your level?
Or is this the only guy who is paying attention to you right now, so you're like 'why not? To be fair, not all 14-year-olds are superimmature.
Divorce is a type of death and requires a process of grief, even when one may have desperately wanted the divorce. Most men live with guilt post-divorce, even when a divorce is more than warranted. BTW, if he's separated versus divorced, consider that a red flag. If he has a hostile relationship with his ex, you can expect a lot more complications than what will already naturally exist when dating or living with a guy who has kids.If he has a friendly relationship with his ex, how friendly is it? The ex dropped by, came into the home and maybe even had a key!Some men feel pulled between their ex and their new partner. There were texts, emails and phone calls on a constant basis.When there are kids involved, it's a major loss for them. They feel especially powerless and shameful if the mother of their children turned out to be not such a great mother. There's a reason for the expression, "Fools rush in where angels fear to tread." 2. Hostile ex-wives tend to extend their bitterness to the new woman in her ex's life.How well has your guy worked through the angst of his marriage ending? Some will try to alienate their children from their father as well as his new partner.