Thus we respond to the sexually addicted client who insists on continuing to act out with every justified reason, “Feel free to chat online with other women, complain about your marriage to old girlfriends on Facebook, and hook up with women from Craigslist.Just make sure you run the agenda by your spouse first.This type of behavior manifests itself in different ways.Chat rooms have always been popular spots for flirting with the opposite sex.But many others will cheat for the very same reason most men do: they just want more or better or different sex.Defining Infidelity What does it mean exactly for your wife or girlfriend to be unfaithful in today’s digital world? That said, after working with hundreds of betrayed spouses and their ultimately remorseful mates, the answer to the question of what defines infidelity remains as clear to me today as it was when Monica Lewinsky first stored away that stained little blue dress.
She can blindfold her lover so he can't see her making love to him.The anonymity of chat rooms also encourages people to share unabashed opinions.People tend to state their thoughts and opinions more emphatically in chat rooms than they would ever dare in real life.Is physical contact necessary, or does a webcam mutual encounter with someone half a world away count equally? Intimate chat room discussions that evolve into a coffee get-together? In other words, with sexual infidelity, it’s more than the cheating itself or any specific sexual act that causes the deepest pain to a betrayed spouse or partner.It’s the betrayal of relationship trust by consistent lying that causes intimacy to crack wide open.