Three months deep into my break-up, I have experienced almost all of them.
First there’s shell shock, followed by denial, and then some combination of paralysis, anger, and loneliness.
He was having a difficult time processing what he was feeling. All these thoughts and more churned through his mind in the early days.And, when we’re talking about love, it’s really hard to get to reach people’s rational self interest if we just use shame.So I want to set the judgment part of why you shouldn’t date a married person aside for a moment and talk about the other consequences of dating a married guy.But when you boil it down, what my client really wanted to know is whether he should just throw in the towel. But now, a couple of weeks have passed and my client is starting to think about her all the time, wondering if what they had before can be salvaged.The way he figured, if his girlfriend had called it quits with him due to some other guy, then the hell with her. This kind of thinking and this sort of reaction to a failed relationship, particularly when it involves your girlfriend dumping you for another man, can just tear right through you.