They say he’s sending mixed messages or playing games or is afraid of getting hurt.
Ladies, my many years of dating and writing about dating have taught me one thing: there are no mixed messages. Here are five tell-tale signs that he’s not: If a guy shows no interest or excitement over finding out who you are, it’s not a good sign. When I was single, my litmus test in determining how much I liked a guy was how much I want to know about him (it was a good test because with my husband, I couldn’t get enough and even after our 7-hour long first date there was so much more I was dying to know! If after a date I felt satisfied and literally didn’t have any questions I felt were left unanswered, I would move on to the next.
You see, a guy can be somewhat interested, but not into it.
Instead of seeing it for what it is, women make up excuses and justifications to rationalize the bad behavior away.
To answer the famous question: “Is he interested“ a big plus for you would be learning how to spot the "signs he’s interested" more easily, as it significantly escalates your opportunities of receiving dates, helps you avoid time wasting men who aren’t really into you, and also helps you avoid being rejected.
So what are really the 7 signs that show if you have a chance with him?
He says he really cares about you, but doesn’t really act like it.
Of course, you can do that after you’ve met him: If you’ve already met a guy and have actually gotten a chance to talk to him, you’ve certianly had a chance to look for additional signs set here to test whether you’re wasting your time or there is something more hiding behind his shy smile.
There is nothing more exasperating in the world of dating than a guy who seems really interested, but then also maybe not…but then yes…but no again.
I’ve been there, and I know most of you have based on the comments and e-mails we receive.
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